The Duchess always knows what she needs, and takes initiatives of various sizes.
You do not need to be a profile to find out who is the leader in the Sussex family and who is a follower. The duchess always knows what she needs and shows initiative on a different scale. But Harry adapts to his wife every now and then.
In his book «Court: Hidden Power Behind the Crown», the royal observer and journalist Valentine Lowe said that the actress put a hard ultimatum to her future husband before the wedding.
Megan told Harry that he would abandon him if he continues to hide their relationship.
She warned: «If you do not make an official statement confirming that I am your girlfriend, I will part with you».
According to another insider, the prince was beside himself from the feelings that overwhelmed him and all the time repeated that his lover was about to abandon him.
In the end, he turned to Jason Knauf for help, a secretary for public relations at Kensington Palace.
«Harry called Knauf and asked him to publish a statement that Megan is her girl. Markle wanted public confirmation of the seriousness of their relationship. She was convinced that the palace did not want to defend her from the attacks of the media», writes Lowe.
He also claims that although Megan liked to be in the spotlight, she did not understand the meaning of all these exits, handshakes, and conversations with strangers.
According to several employees, they at least once heard Markle say: «I can’t believe that they don’t pay me for it», his book says.